Friday, February 12, 2010

NO BODY SMOKES HERE - ANYMORE


At what point does a person who is blowing their cigarette smoke directly into their childs face, realise what they are doing is 100 percent stupid, dangerous and wrong?


I’m guessing never or else they just wouldn’t be doing it.


From January of this year, it has become illegal in Queensland, for an adult to smoke with any child (up to 16 years of age) in the car. The cops can stop the car and fine the perpetrator two hundred dollars. Two hundred bucks? Pfft, these people are shelling out thousands of dollars a year for their durries, often foregoing healthy food for their children to secure them. Do the powers that be, really think that kind of fine is incentive enough to stop them having their morning school drop off ciggie? Clearly not if the amount I see on my way to school is anything to go by. I mean, seriously, the people who are doing this have no respect for their own children. As if they have any for the law.


I have spent a lot of time at the Gold Coast hospital of late. Enough time in fact, to accumulate 3 parking tickets in 12 days. Kind of hard to keep feeding the meter when you have a sick child you cannot leave. Something the State and local government must remedy for unavoidably long hospitals stays. A whole other blog though.


The hilarious thing that in actual fact, is not very funny at all, is that to the side of the entrance of this particular hospital, is a void, probably originally designed for patients and families to have a little outside downtime. Everywhere you look are big No Smoking Signs. Nobody smokes here anymore, apparently.


Everywhere you look are young people, old people, people with obvious hair loss due to chemo, people hooked up to IV’s in wheelchairs, people with their children sitting next to them; all having a fag. This is not a rant against smoking, he who casts the first stone and all that, but I do have a major problem with a place of healing and health i.e. a hospital facilitating, almost encouraging people (with cigarette bins in non-smoking areas and zero officers patrolling the area) to do it on their grounds. And directly into my face when I walk in with my children.


When Mum was a patient here, I vividly remember an older lady who ducked out 10 minutes before she was meant to be getting prepped for brain surgery for a cigarette she had been repeatedly warned, not to have. When she came back, the medical team were there waiting for her. They then refused to operate on when it was clear what she had been doing. She lost it. Ranting and raving and her daughter, who had taken her down for the smoke, also got quite aggressive towards the doctors. Um. For fucks sakes, how can someone help you when you won’t help yourself?


More often than not, a visit to the hospital, unless you a visiting a newborn, involves an element of stress. A lot of people’s answer to stress is a puff on a cigarette. I get that, but it’s time for the government to act and make smoking illegal on hospital grounds and its entrances. Seeing as they love making money out of my inability to fill a parking meter on time and jacking up rates so they can take unnecessary trips to Radelaide, perhaps the local council should take over governing this.


I really don’t care who polices it, it simply just needs to happen. And fast.


19 comments:

The Chris Mapstone Experiment said...

I wholeheartedly agree.

i remember when i was a kid, I would have to get up at 4.30 in the morning to go to swimming training. Dad would light up as we drove to squad, the car would fill up with smoke. I learned to cover my mouth and nose with my jumper.

One day dad flicked the butt out of the car and it flew back in and wedged up under the car seat. It immediately styarted smouldering.

Dad made a quick dash to pull over and saved the day by finding the butt.

If I were older i may have said something but when you are a kid you don't criticise your parents for their actions

Kallie said...

It's illegal in Victoria to smoke in a car carrying children as well, maybe they made it Australia wide. Not a bad thing...

As to hospitals having a smoking area, well they do need an area otherwise people will smoke where they feel like it but then they also need to police the non-smoking areas and all doorways/entrances need to be smoke free for sure. I've heard rumours of smokers being refused treatment for smoke related problems and I have to say it's fair. If you want to smoke, fine but don't expect society to pick up the tab for it.

LizK_is

Megan said...

Agreed. Further to that, I think that smoking in the vicinity of any doorway needs to be banned and policed. I am so sick of walking into shops, cafes, etc. with smoke being blown in my face and that of my toddler. They choose to smoke. I choose not to. My toddler can't even make a choice yet (but God help her in this household if she ever chooses to!!). They can keep their smoke all to themselves.

Carly Findlay said...

I agree with you post. I hate the smoking outside hospitals and workplaces. Anywhere really. But outside hospitals annoy me the most.
I am a very regular hospital visitor. I try to avoid being near smokers when I can. But I cannot avoid it when I go to hospital. They stand on the footpath, one centimetre away from the non smoking sign. And they are usually puffing on a cigarette while plugged into a drip or looking frail to the point of being on their death bead. It annoys me so much.
I am of the belief that people who have lifestyle diseases (smoking related etc) should pay their own way to be treated for their surgeries and treatments. SO much money is spent on research, prevention and treatment of lifestyle diseases - when are they going to spend as much to research and treat diseases we are born with?

Selina said...

Totally feel you there on the hospital issue. I have a quite severe lung condition and have to attend The Prince Charles hospital (which is a lung and heart hospital) frequently. Everytime I walk from the carpark to the front doors I have to walk through other peoples smoke. Most disgusting. I have seen patients who are admitted for lung cancer still head on down for their fag. Very sad really. And anyone who smokes with their kids in the car is a moron. Plain and simple.

Seraphim said...

It is probably one of the few things that makes me REALLY angry. FFS don't smoke near a hospital (or in a car or in ANY confined space)!!! I appreciate it is an addiction, why on earth would you do it otherwise but really, show a bit of consideration to those who choose NOT to smoke. To put the frail, elderly and vulnerable at risk because of your insanely stupid habit is morally reprehensible *stepping off soapbox now*

Kathy said...

*Claps*
I agree with you 100%. Every word.

Jodie at Mummy Mayhem said...

Oh HERE HERE Bern! Yes - that is absolutely ridiculous. Should be zero tolerance for smoking around hospitals!

I've always thought smoking in cars was crazy - with or without a child in it. Surely you couldn't have both hands properly on the wheel - and if you were to drop it, what happens then? Panic stations! Then, an accident. It's law not to use a mobile phone, should be a law against smoking in cars too.

Smoking around hospitals is even more ridiculous than when they used to have the smoking and non-smoking sections on a plane - 1 row the difference. Pfft!

Good for you.. xx

emlykd said...

In Victorian hospitals it is already illegal to smoke on hospital
grounds! I agree with that train of thought!

Sarcasm Fairy said...

Yes I love how when I was giving birth to my 1st child my partner had to leave mid push because he had to move the car to a better car park so he didn't have to feed the meter. Hospital parking is a joke and my GOD they make a lot of money.

I can't stand going to hospital and seeing the oldies in dressing gowns at the front having a smoke.

That said my Mum, a smoker of 30 years has completely stopped smoking by taking the new quit smoking pill thing. Why can't the government just let these people have these pills for free.

Glad the new law has come in. Now to just get smoking banned altogether. I can't stand walking through someone's smoke while I'm walking.

Great post :)

Mrs_starz said...

My husband works at a hospital and eveytime I go to pick him up from work there are new mothers as well as
pregnant ones all hanging around the entrance smoking - despite signs telling them not to. I don't understand the point of having these laws if no one is going to police it. I have never seen anyone cop a fine for smoking in a non-smoking area (or car for that matter). I guess the government just wants to appear harsh, without actually having to do anything.

april said...

This is one of those things that really gets to me. I understand addiciton, I understand people smoking - both my parents did, My mother still does and "cannot" give up - she refuses to eat so I'm assuming she finds she has an appitite when she stops smoking and that freaks her out. Both parents regularly smoked with me in the car but it was'with the window open" I hate smoking areas, I hate the large groups of people smoking outside hospitals or near enterances to anywhere. To my mind, every stressful place shoukd have a seperate area -a way from anyone who doesn't want cancer, or get asthma or who just doesn't like the smell,for those who decide to smoke.
And sure - i is a valid choice but I am OVER the whole "we don't deserve to be segregated" argument. You aren't being. those of us who choose not to smoke would just prefer not to at all, even via your cigarettes, and it kills you. We are told to cover our mouths when we cough, to stayat home when ill so others do not get our illnesses which may be harmful to us, why should it not be the same for something which might kill us? keep it at home. And away from others.
Rant over, apologies.
And i hope your little one is okay

Vicki said...

I've just had the most bizarre experience of playing golf with a woman who chain-smoked the entire 18 holes (four and a half hours). She would be putting with a durrie hanging out the side of her mouth. Seriously, if you find golf that stressful, give up the game.

For the record, I beat her :-D

Kellyansapansa said...

Interestingly, the rate of smoking amongst doctors and other medical professionals is higher than that of the general population. A case of "do as I say, not as I do"?

Raznay said...

For what I'm about to write I realise will have me shunned and most likely banned from Twitter as well as Blogspot.

I am a smoker. At this point in my life, absolutely it is the only thing that helps. You see, I have anxiety and that means that I tend to forget to breathe sometimes. Now, if breathing weren't so important I wouldn't find anything wrong with people hating on and bashing smokers. I myself wouldn't be here to bother with it.
However, I am here and guess what? When I have a smoke, as disgusting and smelly and foul and cancerous as it is, I CAN BREATHE. Do you know why? The smoke makes me inhale and exhale properly.

Now, it's still disgusting. I couldn't agree more. If you have ever thought about smoking, DON'T it's nasty.

What annoys me is that there are so many inconsiderate people out there. I would NEVER and have NEVER smoked near children. I respect them more than my need to breathe.
I have never smoked at any door (workplace, cafe, hospital etc) and I have been to all of those places MANY times.
Lately I spend at least one night a week at hospital either from pain or having to speak with the CATT team.
I have also never smoked around non-smokers. If I do I ask if they object, if they do I don't smoke. It's that simple.

So yes, I can see that I am in a very small minority here, but can someone please say something nice about the people who walk the other way when they realise the wind is blowing in the direction of other people? Can someone please talk about the people who go around and pick up other peoples cigarette butts (yes I do actually do this) because they feel guilty that others make them look bad?

I feel slightly singled out here for being a smoker, and I don't much like that I am frowned upon. Should I add the rest of the list to it? Overweight? Addicted to sugar? Oh, but I abhor alcohol and won't drink it... Does that mean I am now redeemed?

Anyway, just like anything else that is considered bad and nasty, can someone just once take into account that not ALL smokers are these horrible monsters with three heads and six smokes in their mouths exhaling right in your face?

Cheers.
Raz

So Now What? said...

Hi Raz, thanks for your side, I totally understand and applaud your consideration for others. I know people like you who are considerate don't get the praise they deserve.

My gripe here is more with the authorities. I am not without my own vices but guess what I want here (in QLD particularly) is to ban smoking from hospital grounds. That's all. If people want to smoke I have not one problem with it. It is their body, their decision and I have not walked a mile in their shoes so cannot frown upon them for doing it. Obviously no one is smoking for the nice aroma and to spend copious amounts of money if they were not addicted.

I grew up with a chain smoking, roll your own, dad. I grew up with that as the norm. Tobacco in the eye, getting his Log Cabin for him in return for a 20 cent bag of lollies and unfiltered smoke directly into my face. My first job out of school entailed me being a receptionist for an accountant who chain smoked with me directly in front of her. I never knew any different and honestly, I just didn't care. But then somewhere along the way, perhaps when I had kids, it began to shit me that my kids would suck in even one breath of the stuff.

So now, times have changed and I believe the Queensland Government need to take a proactive step in removing people congregating and often socialising in their grounds blowing smoke at everyone walking in. Especially, they should hit hard anybody smoking within the vicinity of children. Because I can't work out whether these people are arrogant or just plain stupid. So it needs to be pointed out to them and curbed.

Sorry I rant on don't I?

Thanks for all the other comments

Liz.. said...

I completely agree. I was at the hospital with my brother once and i stepped outside to call my work to let them know i couldnt come in. I was outside Emergency which is next to maternity and there was a mother having a smoke with her newborn baby in her arms - she still had a huge belly so she must have just had the little one. WHO DOES THIS!???

Anonymous said...

I thought it was illegal in Qld to smoke within 4 metres of an entrance in a builidng. All Qld Gov buildings have smoking bans in and outside of them. Why don't the hosipitals? Are the administrators really that lazy? Is it really going to cause a major drama? It might initially, like all things when they are outlawed. But they'll get over it. After all it is not about the smokers. It is not a smokers hate fest. Iit is about a place of health supplying a safe and healthy environment for its patients.

sleepydumpling said...

A stay in hospital getting a pacemaker fitted was what got my Grandfather, a smoker of over 60 years off the death sticks. He'd stayed in hospital many times before, but this time a cute lady doctor patted him on the hand and said "Time to give up now Mr Brown, and you're in here so you can't anyway, good time to go through the withdrawals."

And credit to him, he did it. Though I think the fact that the lady doctor was a looker probably was a big influence on the dirty old bugger.

If the grounds were smoke free as well, then it would be the perfect setup. When you're sick is the best time to make that step to giving up.